Important: You want to enjoy good relationship with people, but you are unwilling to change yourself and do the right thing. You insist that your own human nature is reality. You are accepting the true reality.
Because the reality is , the world will response if u acted in a way that is aligned to human nature. If you do not want to do that, you won't enjoy good human relationship. This is the basic principles.
Truth:
If you want to be the best, you have to take risk others will avoid.
People want to be important
- We need to generally look at people in the eyes when we are talking to them. Not stare at them, depends on the situation.
- greet them
People want to be liked
- smile at them genuinely , but not all the time, is an art.
- greet them happily
Talk about something that interest them
Listen to them with interest
Talk to people first.
When the relationship goes a bit deeper.
People want to feel loved
Concern about them.
Accept their flaws , as it is just reality
Know that all these principles you apply , is just nice-to-have. Don't react angrily to people when they don't reciprocate.
The greatest obstacles I have when dealing with people is that I allow my emotion to dictate my behavior.
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